2 x 50 for Channel 4 Originally broadcast 11 November 2002, Channel 4
On-line Editor Todd Dalton
Executive Producer Oliver Morse
Editor Simon Rose
Filmed and Directed by Daisy Asquith
Marrying a Stranger
Boy
meets girl. East meets West. This film follows two young British
Muslims as they struggle to reconcile traditional Muslim values with
their British upbringing.
Shabaz is 26 and likes hip hop, football and Versace. His
mum, who he lives with in West Ham, has chosen a girl for him to
marry. She lives in a village in Pakistan. Shabaz wants to
get to know her and make his own mind up, but when he arrives in her
village the elders won’t allow it. He will not set eyes on
her until the wedding day. The film follows Shabaz over 8 months
as he struggles to balance his eastern/western influences and find a
way to keep himself, his family and his new wife happy.
Sabeena is a 25 year old from Manchester, who is in her parents’
view, getting a bit over the hill. They have given her 6 months
to find herself a suitable husband, or they say they will choose one
for her. Sabeena turns to a Muslim matchmaking site on the
Internet and finds someone who fits her parents’ criteria.
But will he make Sabeena happy? The film follows her ups and
downs as she tries to please her parents and be a good Muslim girl
without giving up her life to a man she hardly knows.
"Marrying A Stranger was a refreshing film about modern Muslim life"